You just donate the money to the organization, that's all. That's how most rich people do it. And in any case, there's no such thing as a truly charitable act. You "serve" others because it makes you feel better about yourself, and it makes you look good and admirable in the eyes of others. It's an image thing.

He doesn't handle gender confusion very well. And he's a liar, claiming he likes men, when you're the only man he's ever fucked, I'm sure. That makes you even more special!