You seem so passionate about it.

So you get the difference, it's not that I don't understand what it means to be destitute, I've lived the life. You just can't hold my being born wealthy against me, couldn't help that, but I did choose to make it on my own steam.

Preferential treatment. The way you talk about him, the way you favor him, the way you treat him. You're not always kind, but he's different from every one else, he stands on a different platitude. Even if it's platonic.