Yes, go to the john. Never go to the john with a guy unless it's for a quickie. Anything else there are rules for. Like standing at the furthest urinal away from the other guys and not making eye contact and definitely not shaking hands. Same rules applies with girls...except girls congregate in the bathroom with other girls so they follow entirely different rules that are taboo in the world of male toilet etiquette. And naturally I don't hit girls if I don't hit anyone and I wouldn't hit a girl even if I did...and I respect my elders, that's why oma and opa get so much respect from me.